Do I Cherish My Spouse? (Part Three)
Can you remember some of the wedding advice you got once you announced your engagement? Here are some of the gems of wisdom I can recall…Be sure to treat her like a queen, Weird in-laws just get weirder, and my all time favorite, The secret of a happy marriage is still a secret. Karen and I have a marriage that has grown from good […]
Do I Cherish My Spouse? (Part Two)
We’re becoming a nation of rude, self-absorbed, spoiled brats. Our culture screams the mantra “It’s all about me”. While it remains to be seen if this attitude will foster a generation of self empowered people, it’s absolutely evident that this outlook is creating a lethal environment for establishing biblical marriages. Some may think the Bible tells us to love our neighbors […]
Do I Cherish My Spouse? (Part One)
If you’re like me, when you exchanged your marriage vows, and if they were the traditional ones, you may have made one promise that you don’t really know how to keep. Do you remember pledging to love, honor and cherish? Have you ever stopped to think about what those words mean and what the promise is supposed to look like? Do you […]
Five Reasons to Date Your Mate
There’s no doubt about it, regular date nights improve marriages and prevent divorces. Researchers have found that married couples who go on frequent dates have lower divorce rates and feel better about the quality of their marriages than couples who don’t. Hey, hopefully that’s enough evidence to get you dating your spouse again. One study highlighted five reasons why date […]
Christian Relationship Coaching: Building Stronger Bonds
When we think of coaching, we usually think in the context of sports and getting all the specialized training, encouragement, and discipline we need to sharpen our skills and strategies that will make us a valuable asset to the team. So then, a good Christian Relationship Coach will help you learn the information, develop strategies, and teach you the skills you need to become a better spouse or parent. You […]
Choosing the Right Coach for Your Marriage: Key Questions to Ask for Success
When you finally get to the place where you’ve had enough and it is time to start working on or revitalizing your marriage, one of the biggest questions you may ask yourself is: “Do we need some outside help?”The answer to that question comes down to your beliefs regarding the benefits of hiring a professional. Is it […]
Get Your Marital Muscles Pumping: Introducing Personalized Coaching for Couples
Like many folks, I joined a gym to lose some weight, to build some muscle and to increase my stamina. I was trying to combat the aging process, not to mention the years of neglecting my physical fitness. It was one of those gyms that you could go to for a little bit of money every month. And, […]
4 Ways to Know When it’s Time for Marriage Coaching
We’re asked often, “When is the right time to get some help for my marriage?” My response … you know you could use marriage coaching if (a) you’re married, and (b) you’re breathing. Let’s debunk a few myths about marriage coaching. Nobody is going to judge, yell or embarrass you. Despite your potential fears to […]
Pursuing your Spouse
Have you ever thought my spouse hates me? If so, you’ve experienced the truth that unmaintained marriages die a slow death, couples gradually drift apart. Unresolved issues simmer below the surface and trust withers. If we are not purposeful, those loving feelings we have for each other will fade away. If you’re feeling my spouse hates me, don’t give up. The […]
Is it Okay to Lie?
Everyone tells a white lie now and then but we need to ask ourselves, why? Sometimes we believe these white lies will save our relationships, ease a hectic situation, or maybe buy us some time. But the danger lurks and it once we get started, it’s all too easy to keep those lies going and going and going. Are you being totally honest? Are […]